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Art of living Well

Like My Mother’s Fried Rice

I will always be able to distinguish my mother’s fried rice. Having spent years eating this simple dish that my mother often prepared when there was not much time, I can truly say that nothing else tastes quite the same....

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The Gentle Rule of Reason

There are two extremes when it comes to the relationship between reason and the emotions. The first is when we overemphasize reason and treat our emotions like an unwanted intruder. In this case, we either ignore or repress our emotions,...

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as uncomfortable as nails

How does one look a suicide in the face? I often flinch, I am not sure what to tell her, she demands an answer, but, I dare not say the possibilities, yet hope I say and hope I believe but...

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The Honesty of Job

We can all picture the scene. We enter into the Chapel, the smell of incense lingering in the air. The Eucharist is proudly displayed in a beautiful monstrance. There is beautiful artwork that invokes imagery of heaven and the saints....

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Hitting the Pause Button

I’ll never forget a friend I had my freshman year of college. He was rather small, and on first appearance he seemed to be on the nerdy side of things. However, despite what seemed to be rather limited abilities, he...

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liturgy

The Exchange between lover and beloved As soft as the whispering of a poem into the ear of a windy night As often as rain drops falling in the midst of the storm In the midst of this familiarity, this...

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The Joy of Chastity

My spiritual director recently gave an interesting metaphor for contemplation. He described contemplation as that moment when the waters of a lake are stilled and one is able to witness the beauty of the night sky reflected on the waters....

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people who speak knives

there are some people who like to speak knives the thrill of when their words draw blood they never stop to feel other people nor do they listen to tears or they stop long enough until the crying goes into...

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spring emerges

spring emerges, the circulation awakens from places deep within ancient energies resurface or rather are reinvigorated things seem to move, just a little more shaking off the sluggish coat, the clumsy gloves now my fingers can pluck the sweet string...